Being in the Now
It has seemed like forever since I’ve posted so I thought since I have some free time right now, why not do an update? With every ending there is always a beginning just how as one door closes another one opens. Though the ending may not be wanted or a certain door is just to hard to close, we all must move on eventually. Well as of August 31st my mom officially finished chemotherapy! Yaaaayyy!!! She had to take three chemos each treatment but by her fifth treatment, one of them began to really damage her heart so they took her off it and continued the other two. For awhile they thought her heart wasn’t going to be able to go through surgery and with how fast her heart capacity was decreasing I began to fear losing my mother. We went back and forth to different diagnostic centers, cardiologists, and hospitals to run all these tests to see what was going on to only find out there was nothing wrong with her heart. I have also began to theorize that all these doctors run all these tests just to make sure you are spending enough money. These last few treatments have really taken a toll on her but she’s fighting through it better than anyone I know. We begin our new chapter of this fight by now discussing surgery and making a new game plan for what’s going to happen next. In the midst of all of this, I also have began a new chapter in my life. I have began my freshman year of college and I honestly couldn’t be happier. When my mom was first diagnosed she was given six weeks to live. My plans for my future fell through the floor because I couldn’t see my life without her in it. I originally had planned to attend a school up in North Carolina with a full-ride scholarship which was where my older brother had attended but with my mom now as sick as she was, my plans changed pretty fast and last minute. She was diagnosed the day before I was supposed to sign the dotted line so it was obvious that God did not want me at that university. I am now taking online classes through a college much closer to home so I can be by her side every step of the way. If all goes well I will be living on campus next year but until then I will wake up every morning, enjoy a warm cup of coffee, snuggle up with a blanket, and begin class. So in other words I have absolutely no complaints and am very happy at this moment in my life despite everything else that’s going on. It’s hard to find happiness in the midst of this kind of a mess but it’s even harder to hold on to that happiness. I’ve learned just how important it is to enjoy the little moments and to find joy in those little things. If you take things seriously all the time, you will only stress yourself out and be miserable. It’s important to stay positive, be happy, and to enjoy being in the now! Until next time….
Sincerely,
The Caregiver ❤️